You refer to Gay and Bisexual men as "men who have sex with men."  This is insulting and inaccurate.  What you are actually doing is dis-acknowledging the identity of Gay and Bi-sexual men.  A more accurate way to refer to "men that have sex with men" are men who do not identify as Gay or Bi-sexual.  I find this offensive and it contributes to bias as well as understanding of the needs of Gay or Bi-sexual men.  As a Gay man I find this term demeaning to me as well as the thousands of Gay or Bisexual men who live with this condition or whom have died as a result of AIDS related illnesses.  